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SEASON 2 EPISODE 09
Money & Mindset: Starting Over After Divorce
What if the biggest thing standing between you and financial freedom isn't money at all?
What if it's the story you've been telling yourself about money?
In this conversation, Hannah sits down with entrepreneur, financial planning expert, Strategic Coach mentor, and single mom turned self-made success story, Colleen Bowler.
After navigating a difficult divorce, raising her son on her own, and being handed $50,000 in debt, Colleen rebuilt her life and went on to build one of the top financial planning firms in the country.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 10
The Day I Learned He Was Living A Double Life
What would you do if you discovered the person you loved wasn't who you thought they were?
In this episode, Hannah sits down with bestselling author, speaker, and entrepreneur Ginny Priem to talk about the moment her life changed forever.
After a friend revealed shocking information about the man she was building a life with, Ginny uncovered a web of deception that forced her to confront a painful reality: the relationship she thought she had wasn't real.
What followed was a journey through betrayal, healing, self-discovery, and ultimately learning how to trust herself again.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 08
The Dangerous Side of Selflessness
For years, Kimber Hardick did everything she thought she was supposed to do.
She was a wife.
A mother.
A helper.
A caretaker.
The person everyone could count on.
From the outside, her life looked successful.
Inside, she was disappearing.
In this deeply honest conversation, Hannah sits down with author, speaker, and educator Kimber Hardick to talk about the quiet way so many women lose themselves while taking care of everyone else.
After more than 30 years of marriage, Kimber found herself confronting a question she had spent decades avoiding:
Who am I when I'm not taking care of everyone else?
Together, Hannah and Kimber unpack the stories women are taught about self-sacrifice, why so many of us confuse being needed with being valued, and how years of putting ourselves last can leave us feeling invisible in our own lives.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 07
The Secret To Making A Blended Family Work
Everyone wants the blended family to feel like a family immediately.
But that's not how real life works.
In this deeply personal episode, Hannah sits down with her husband, Drew Bell, to talk honestly about what happened after the engagement, the wedding, and the excitement wore off.
How do you actually blend a family after divorce?
What happens when one partner has children and the other doesn't?
How do you build trust with kids who have already experienced so much change?
And how do you create a family without forcing it?
Together, Hannah and Drew share the lessons they learned while building a family of seven, including what worked, what didn't, and why patience may be the most underrated parenting tool in a blended family.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 06
How to Spot a Narcissist
What if the problem wasn’t that you were too sensitive…
…but that you were being taught to doubt your own reality?
In this episode of Not Saving It For Later, Hannah sits down with retired clinical psychologist Dr. Kerry McAvoy to unpack one of the most misunderstood and overused words in modern relationships: narcissist.
Because not every difficult partner is a narcissist.
And not every narcissist looks the way you think.
This conversation moves beyond social media buzzwords and into the real psychology behind narcissistic behavior, manipulation, power, and emotional control.
Dr. Kerry brings both clinical expertise and personal experience to this conversation, helping listeners understand not only what narcissism is — but why smart, capable, loving women so often find themselves trapped inside these relationships.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 05
Are Your Kids Being Used As Weapons In Your Divorce?
What happens when divorce stops being about resolution… and starts becoming about control?
In this episode of Not Saving It For Later, Hannah sits down with psychologist Dr. Mary Alvarez to unpack the painful reality of high conflict divorce and custody cases — and the devastating impact conflict can have on children.
If communication feels impossible… if you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells… if co-parenting feels more like surviving than parenting… this conversation is for you.
Dr. Alvarez brings decades of experience working inside high conflict family systems and explains what many parents quietly live through but struggle to put words around.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 04
What If The Good Stuff Scares You Too?
You expected divorce to feel hard. What you didn't expect is that the good stuff on the other side might feel scarier.
Tah Whitty is back for season two — nurse, healer, men's work guide, and one of Hannah's most trusted people. In their first season conversation he pulled a thread that wouldn't let her go: the part of her, and most women coming through divorce, that learned to keep the bad stuff out by also keeping the good stuff out. The same armor that protected you in the worst of it can quietly block the joy, the new love, the easier flow you've been working so hard to receive.This conversation is about full spectrum humanity — feeling all of it on purpose. They get into why "good" and "bad" are the wrong words, the five-step framework Tah teaches his clients, and why letting it just be is a level up from letting it be good.
Tender, layered, and full of permission. Save this one for the days when you can't tell if you're protecting yourself or hiding from your life.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 03
The Invisible Prison Most Married Women Don't See
If you've ever felt vaguely exhausted in your marriage but couldn't quite name why — walking on eggshells, repeating the same arguments, somehow still the one carrying it all — this conversation is going to put words on it.
Abby Eckel is one of Hannah's favorite follows online. She talks about domestic labor, the mental load, and the quiet inequities baked into most marriages — and she does it without sugar-coating any of it. She and Hannah dig into why "just leave" is some of the worst advice women get, what it actually looks like to center yourself in small daily ways, and why so many smart, capable women stay in the invisible prison even when the key is in their own pocket.
Honest, funny, and full of permission slips. If you needed someone to tell you it's okay to make a dinner you like, take the bath during the football game, and stop being the family cruise ship director — start here.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 02
People Pleasing is The Highest Form of Lying
If "I'll just do it" is your default — at home, with the kids, at work, in your marriage — this is the conversation that's going to wreck you in the best way. Marla Mattenson is Hannah's longtime coach, friend, and one of the most quietly brilliant people she's ever worked with.
Former math teacher, doula, body worker, executive coach, and a meditator with 23 years and 23 ten-day silent retreats under her belt. In this episode, Hannah brings you the Marla Greatest Hits — the small, simple shifts that quietly rewire how you communicate, how you set boundaries, and how you stop bleeding yourself dry trying to keep everyone else comfortable.
We get into consent in everyday relationships, the difference between a clean yes and a "mushy yes," why people pleasing is technically lying, and the nervous system regulation tools (red, yellow, green) you can actually use the next time you feel agitated, stuck, or about to snap.
SEASON 2 EPISODE 01
I Had to Lose Two Marriages To Learn How To Love Myself
If you've ever walked out of one relationship straight into the next and wondered why it started to feel familiar — this conversation is for you.
Amy Edwards is the host of "Anything But Mid" and "The Amy Edwards Show", an author, and a musician who looks nothing like the version of "in her 50s" most of us were sold. She's also been divorced twice. In this episode, she's open about all of it — including the parts most women won't say out loud — and we get into pick-me energy, why cheating is rarely about the other person, the mirror practice that changed everything, and how worthiness, respect, and self-trust actually get built.
This one is raw, funny, and full of the kind of honesty that makes you sit up a little straighter. If you're somewhere in the middle of a divorce — or somewhere in the middle of trying to figure out who you are again — start here.
EPISODE 12
Do You Want Justice… or Do You Want Peace? (Featuring Sam Colletti)
Hannah sits down with Austin family law attorney and mediator Sam Colletti, a trusted colleague and longtime friend, for a ground-level conversation about what mediation actually is, what it isn’t, and why so many people misunderstand their options during divorce.
This episode pulls back the curtain on the divorce process — especially the emotional traps that keep people stuck chasing “justice,” burning money, and handing control of their future to a system that was never designed to heal them.
EPISODE 11
What No One Tells You Before Filing For Divorce (featuring Christopher Anderson)
In this grounded conversation, Hannah sits down with one of her closest advisors and longtime family law attorney, Christopher Anderson, a man who has spent decades inside the systems most people only encounter on the worst days of their lives.
Christopher has prosecuted domestic violence and sex crimes in the Bronx, represented families in high-conflict divorce, built and run law firms across the country, and lived the long-term consequences of a “bad split” as a child of divorce himself. He’s seen what actually protects children, and what quietly destroys them.
EPISODE 10
When It’s Not Abuse… But It’s Still Not Right (Featuring Kole Whitty)
What if the most dangerous place to stay is the one that looks “fine”?
In this episode of Not Saving It for Later, Hannah sits down with Kole Whitty for a conversation about divorce, identity, desire, and the moment a woman realizes she can’t keep betraying herself to keep the peace.
This episode is for the woman who isn’t in crisis — but isn’t free either.
EPISODE 09
Do You Want Justice… or Do You Want Peace? (Featuring Sam Colletti)
Hannah sits down with Austin family law attorney and mediator Sam Colletti, a trusted colleague and longtime friend, for a ground-level conversation about what mediation actually is, what it isn’t, and why so many people misunderstand their options during divorce.
This episode pulls back the curtain on the divorce process — especially the emotional traps that keep people stuck chasing “justice,” burning money, and handing control of their future to a system that was never designed to heal them.
EPISODE 08
The Spy in Your Pocket: What Your Ex Already Knows (featuring Steven Bradley)
Hannah sits down with former FBI investigator and certified “Tech Cowboy” Steven Bradley — a digital safety expert who has seen every trick, trap, and tech-enabled manipulation used in divorces and abusive relationships.
If you’re anywhere near divorce — contemplating it, in the thick of separation, or rebuilding after — this episode is a wake-up call you cannot skip…
EPISODE 07
Dishonesty Is Killing You: How to Stop Abandoning Yourself (featuring Tah Whitty)
In this raw conversation, Hannah sits down with one of the most singular humans she’s ever met: Tah Whitty — former trauma nurse, impossibility alchemist, and the man people go to when they’re finally done lying to themselves.
Tah has worked in emergency rooms, with elite performers, with couples on the brink, and with people who have spent their entire lives shrinking, masking…
EPISODE 06
The Truth About Men, Money & Moving On (featuring Holly J. Moore)
In this honest, no-fluff conversation, Hannah sits down with powerhouse California divorce attorney Holly J. Moore — the woman who has seen everything from celebrity splits to the emotional landmines women walk into without even knowing it.
Holly represents high-net-worth clients, professional athletes, and a whole lot of men — giving her a front-row seat to the differences in how men and women prepare for divorce, survive divorce, and rebuild after divorce…
EPISODE 04
The Money Talk Women Were Never Given: Why Divorce Blindsides Even the Smartest Women (featuring Sara Glakas)
In this practical conversation, Hannah sits down with financial educator and advisor Sara Glakas — founder of Black Barn Financial and the Austin Women’s Investing Group. She is a long-time advocate for helping women build confidence around money…
EPISODE 03
Your Triggers Aren't The Problem... You Are (featuring Casey Shipp)
In this no-filter, no-bullshit conversation, Hannah sits down with her mentor, coach, and full-blown spiritual defibrillator, Casey Shipp — the woman Hannah calls her string bikini shaman and one of the biggest influences in her own evolution.
If you are in the middle of a divorce, thinking about leaving, or standing in the ashes asking, How did I end up here again?…
EPISODE 05
Becoming the Woman You Were Always Afraid to Be (featuring Lily Shepard)
In this powerful conversation, Hannah sits down with somatic executive coach Lily Shepard to talk about identity, the body, divorce, desire, and what it really means to become the woman you were meant to be.
Lily shares her own traumatic divorce experience, how identity collapses when the “wife” role disappears, and how reconnecting to the body creates space for safety, clarity, and authentic expansion…
EPISODE 01
Later is A Lie: Stop Saving Your Life for Someday
This first episode of Not Saving It For Later sets the tone for everything to come. It’s for women who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, on the other side, or simply stuck in the “medium suck” of life…
EPISODE 02
Losing Yourself Trying to Be The Perfect Wife: How Good Women Get Lost in The Wrong Roles
In this unfiltered conversation, Hannah sits down with her longtime friend and former client Amanda Diehl — a mom of two, twice divorced, and proof that sometimes the life you want is on the other side of the one that broke you…